Can we see this the other way round? We classify some critters as butterflies and learn that their first stage is a catterpilar. Even what bothers in fruits, a worm, is called "fruit FLY"! Do you even know how is the winged part of her life? We even aim at transforming ourself, "to become a … Continue reading We name the showy… Do you want to be a worm or a (butter)fly?
I am addicted to the word thank you! Or any sentence conveying thankfulness and "welcome"! The feeling of thankfulness is like a path between the universe and me! It selects the right energy I want to receive from the universe, and the right feeling I want to send to the universe! Thank you for saying … Continue reading Thankfulness
If you surrender, the fight will still be there inside. Only when we relinquish and do not want to go on, do we know as a sign, that the fight and the fear is gone. We cannot let go, we can just see that it went, when it has changed, when it is transmutated.
Are there things that you can do for others, but find nobody to do them for you? Are you for example able to sustain others and cannot get the same? Do you want this in real life and not only go to therapy? Do for somebody what you want the person to do for you. … Continue reading Oponopono: balance what they cannot do by doing it!
We always re-establish the correct distance for us. We go away, or make go away and when we cannot physically do it, we get in our bubble... And time distance? Yes we can also be off time! Ahead or left behind, are we alone or just get our necessary distance? We human mammals need to … Continue reading Distance
I feel like pushing to tomorrow the activation meant by choice, and staying there building pressure, storm. With choice comes a new life, and the GRIEVING. Even if we change for better. It is like death, we feel that something is irreversible. Yes, we suffer enough, and the freeze of non choosing can feel warmer … Continue reading Choice needs grieving
Are feeling stuck between silence and speak? When you have all the rights and reasons to be angry and speak up, except that it conveys a risk, danger. Are you supported, or do you feel isolated because everything is going on around as if nothing was happening, and something IS happening! And who cares? And … Continue reading Be silent or speak?
What do you have ready when a big weight arrives in the plate of your scale? A bigger weight to throw in. And this one, you have to carry it with you all the time, and it needs to be very light until you use it! A lot of people carry a counterweight, but it … Continue reading Extra weight ready to put in the other plate…
Resourcing is meant to increase your sense of inner containment. It is being like a clay bowl, and you mix some fresh clay and add more borders around your bowl! Or it is like you are a child playing in the snow and you feel cold and you want to go on because you really … Continue reading Resourcing
Anything with imagination works, as long as you feel it. When your balance is too heavy on one side, put imagination on the other plate, the same weight. If you imagine well that you cut a lemon and drip the juice in your mouth, your mouth will react! If not, it does not work for … Continue reading What weights more, 1kg of lead or 1 kg of air?